Alzheimer’s disease gradually diminishes a person’s ability to communicate. People with dementia have more difficulty expressing thoughts and emotions, as well as more trouble understanding others.
Here are some tips to help in communication and understanding:
- Learn to create a ‘kind voice’ – slower, lower, smiling.
- Talk slowly and clearly.
- Call the person by name.
- Always approach the person from the front so there are no surprises.
- Tell the person who you are, even if you are the spouse or child.
- Ask one question at a time.
- Use short, simple words and sentences.
- Avoid using logic and reason.
- Avoid quizzing.
- Avoid asking, “Do you remember when…?”
- Do not take any negative communication personally.
- Be careful not to interrupt.
- Avoid criticizing, correcting and arguing.
- Let the person know you are listening and trying to understand what is being said.
- Keep good eye contact.
- Show the person that you care about what is being said.
- Patiently wait for a response as extra time may be required to process your request.
- Repeat information and questions. If the person doesn’t respond, wait a moment. Then ask again.
- Focus on the feelings, not the facts.
- Sometimes the emotions being expressed are more important than what is being said.
- Let the person think about and describe whatever he or she wants.
- If the person uses the wrong word or cannot find a word, try guessing the right one.
- If you don’t understand what is being said, ask the person to point or gesture.
Tip resources from Alzheimer’s Association: alz.org